“The head and heart may be in denial of your human needs, but the gut will always carry the wisdom of your needs met and unmet, and thusly respond.”- Martha Char Love, What’s Behind Your Belly Button? A Psychological Perspective of the Intelligence of Human Nature and Gut Instinct

Instincts – what are they?

  • an innate, typically fixed pattern of behaviour in animals in response to certain stimuli.
  • a natural or intuitive way of acting or thinking

Gut instincts are the immediate, intuitive reactions we have to certain situations or stimuli. These automatic responses are believed to be developed from past experiences, using memories from similar situations to make fast decisions.

When we find ourselves facing a decision, we often have two clear responses: the logical brain, and the gut feeling. We’ve all felt it before, an instinctive feeling in your stomach usually pertaining to something being wrong.

“Trust your hunches. They’re usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level.” –  Dr Joyce Brothers

Whats the connect between instincts and your gut?

The neurons in our gut are in constant communication with the neurons in our brain. For example, I, as person with anxiety, feel nauseous when over stimulated. My gut reaction is to leave, but the anxiety is in my head. Full body reactions to a stimulus in the brain, to external environments or decision making is a common occurrence we all know well.  Usually, these instincts are something that our gut picks up on that our brain doesn’t.

But in an age of logic, trusting your gut or going with your instincts often results in others thinking you’re slightly mad, questioning your decision-making skills and making you second guess yourself all the time.

In some cases, this isn’t a bad thing. We develop unconscious bias, influenced by our past experiences, cultures, family, everything really. So sometimes our gut reactions are bias towards similar issues, and often don’t fully reflect our needs or wants. So sometimes, stopping and questioning your gut reaction and why you had it is a good thing do to, if it means you might miss out on a good opportunity.

But for the most part, the gut instinct is solidly believed to connected to our evolutionary instincts of fight, flight, freeze, food, fornicate. Our natural instincts when coming across danger, predators or other people. Not so much needed nowadays, but perhaps as a woman walking home at night you have the stomach punching instinct to walk faster, to stand closer to a friend, to lock your cars doors.

“If it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. Trust your intuition and don’t ask “why”, just say no.” – Maria Erving

What does instinct do?

Our instincts exist to protect us. To keep us safe. They are usually a result of fear or defence, hence, fight or flight.

I am an advocate of trusting my gut. If a situation feels wrong, I leave it. And I’ve received some questions and disbelief from my family members and friends who can’t see the logical reasoning behind my choices. Because there isn’t one. But I don’t regret a single one.

These instincts aren’t always founded from fear or discomfort. They could be things like…

  • A painter might just know which colour to use, even if they’ve just started out.
  • A gardener just knows when to plant flowers, despite what other people say.
  • The instinct to pick some flowers because they’ll make you happy later on.

It might be a sudden, overwhelming feeling to say yes to something you might not usually say yes to.

To say no to a job, offer, to break up with a lover or a friend; to apply for something completely different, go on a date with someone different, call your friend out of the blue.

Sometimes trusting ourselves is something we need to do in order to care for ourselves, respect ourselves, a form of self-love if you will.

Whether you call it trusting your gut, homing in on energies, listening to your body, your heart, the universe, these instincts are there for a reason. You don’t have to go along with them, but you shouldn’t ignore them.

“I do not feel any obligations toward my lineage, or environment, but an inclination to what feels right.” – Natasha Tsakos

Posted By  : The Hormona Team

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