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International Women’s Day: Sisters are doing it for themselves…
Womanology – A Product Review
Feminist Film Theory: What is it?
Classic Female Artists for Visual Inspiration
The gender inequality of scientific research
Self-Pride: How To Be Proud Of Yourself
Interview: The Benefits of a Women-Only Gym
Is Your Viewing Inclusive? Feminist Film Tests
Smile, Sweetie: Politeness and Gender Roles
Series: Women in Positions of Power: Law
Intersectional Feminism: What We Ought to Know
Series: Women in Positions of Power: Religion
Goddesses: The Power of Women
What Is the Patriarchy? Feminism and Social Constructs
Women From History School Should Have Taught
Women in Positions of Power: Politics
Female Stand Up Comedians to Keep You Laughing
Isolation Motivation: Small Goals and the Rule of Three
My Path to becoming a Selfish Activist: You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup!
Florence Given: A Woman In Power
My Mother’s Opinion: Women and Validation
Self-Empowerment Through Lingerie
Female Directors to Watch Whilst You’re Stuck At Home
3 Podcast You Need To Help You Be The Best Go It Alone Girl Boss Of 2020  
Opening Doors: Feminism and Gender Roles
Series – A Man’s World: Women In Powerful Professions – Women in Education 
International Women’s Day Discussion- 3 Challenges That Women Still Face
International Women’s Day 2020: Women Who Are Changing The World This Year 
Classic Feminist Authors You Should Read At Least Once 
The Famous WLW You Need To Know 
Let’s Stop Femininity Shaming & Let Femininity Be Our Superpower
Series – A Man’s World: Women In Powerful Professions – The Medical Industry
The Young Activists You Need To Be Following Now 
Series – A Man’s World: Women in Powerful Professions – The Military
Steph Hendel – An Interview with the Health Coach
Inspirational Quotes from Female Poets
Self-Study: 5 Books by Inspiring Women to Help You Reconnect With Yourself
How To Have An LGBTQ+ Valentines Day 2020 
A Year In Review: The Empowering Women (And Girls) Of 2019 
3 Podcast You Need To Help You Be The Best Go It Alone Girl Boss of 2020   
My Top 3 Strong Female Protagonists and What We Can Learn from Them
Seven Body Positivity Influencers You Need On Your Feed Right Now 
Imogen Rose – An Interview
The Charities You Should Be Supporting This Christmas
Narrating Herstory: Five Selfish Women of History
Self-Study: The Beauty and Usefulness
Meet Three Young Female Entrepreneurs Who Are Absolutely Killing It 
Power Suits: Why Every Woman Should Own a Power Suit
The Sacred Art of the Women’s Circle: What, Why and How- Your Introduction To a Women’s Circle
Little Women is Getting Another Film: They Don’t Take Shit From Anyone
The Liberation In Losing The Razor
How to survive a family holiday in your twenties 
Lessons I’ve Learnt From Lizzo 
Five Female Influencers Worth Following That Aren’t Caroline Calloway 
Five Female Stand Up Comedians You Should Know About Right Now
Moving into a Freelance World – The Selfish Darling Story
How women reach their dreams – Barbara Noraz
5 Books You Need to Read About Feminism
What to do After Losing Your Job/How to Bounce Back!
THE BITCH FACTOR:  How to care less without being careless
Learn How to be Your Own Boss
5 Books to Empower Women
Is it worth a dress size? All the reasons you should ditch dieting
5 Entrepreneurial Women to Inspire Your Creativity
The Best Fitness and Wellbeing Influencers to Follow
5 Inspirational Women to Take Motivation From
Stylish gym wear to get you fitness focused after the vacation

This Monday was International Women’s Day and so to continue the celebration of women this week we're looking at some of the kick-ass, strong women throughout history who have proved

March 10, 2021

Today we're looking at some of the lovely products from Womanology and I have to say I absolutely love these products! From the self-love potions to the cleansing oils, they

November 1, 2020

The media is one the greatest influences we have growing up, the shows and films we watch, the music we listen to and the stories we read can all impact

September 2, 2020

In museums and galleries around the world we are surrounded by the male view. From Picasso to Van Gogh, Degas, Monet and Rembrandt, the artistic world has been dominated by

August 31, 2020

Please note, this is a repurposed article on gender inequality in scientific research, written by Dr Nicky Keay and first published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine on 21

August 24, 2020

Self-pride: pride in one's abilities, status, possessions, etc.; self-esteem. We often think of pride as being a bad thing. People can be vain and egotistical, but our self-pride is woven

July 29, 2020

With lockdown slowly lifting here in the UK, many of us are looking forward to getting back to normal. For a number of us this means the opportunity to get

July 21, 2020

Fiction influences us daily. The stories and characters we watch in film and television all have the ability to inspire. Within the film industry, women have been making waves as

July 10, 2020

“If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love. Don't be surly at home, then go out in the street and start grinning 'Good

July 1, 2020

Throughout history,  the political and legal landscape of our countries and empires have been overseen by women. As queens, empresses, regents and heads of states, women across the world have

June 25, 2020

So, we’re all feminists here (if not I think you’re in the wrong place), but is our fight truly equal? As we fight for equality across the world and in

June 23, 2020

Recently, I have been re-watching the Vicar of Dibley, which growing up was, and remains, one of my favourite shows. Watching it again now, I better understand how revolutionary it

June 10, 2020

We look for inspiration everywhere. From authors, musicians, poets and politicians, women we know and women from history. We look to our fellow women for guidance and encouragement. But for

June 7, 2020

“Patriarchy has no gender.” - bell hooks It’s a word we hear often, especially in feminist circles. We hear it scorned, scoffed, screamed and battled against. But what actually is

May 31, 2020

Women and History lessons Who remembers leaning about Henry the 8th? About Churchill, about William the Conqueror, Abraham Lincoln, Shakespeare, Dickens and a heart list of many other famous and

May 11, 2020

Women as Leaders Women’s voices have always fought to be heard in the political world. Speeches, marches, protests, petitions to demand that our voices and opinions are heard in the

May 8, 2020

Women in comedy - the female comedians It has been a challenge for women to break into comedy, the male dominated scene making it a slow and steady progress. Even

April 26, 2020

It’s very easy in times like this, stuck at home with nowhere to go, to fall into routines or lack therefore that leave us unmotivated and down. But not all

April 20, 2020

So here’s the thing. I have a lot of opinions. Don’t we all? However, since I’m personally on the more introverted and "sensitive" side, you won’t usually find me at

April 19, 2020

Florence Given is a feminist influencer, author and artist based in the UK. She is known for her unique illustrations and feminist writings, as well as her fantastic sense of

April 15, 2020

Validation: the action of checking or proving the validity or accuracy of something recognition or affirmation that a person or their feelings or opinions are valid or worthwhile As women,

April 13, 2020

In society, women are expected to to display their sexuality and sensuality in certain ways. Confined to societal expectations, it is difficult to embrace your sexuality and allow it to

April 8, 2020

Now that we’re home, balancing our work-life routines, many of us can delve into activities we might not have had time for before. I, for one, will be watching films.

April 7, 2020

You decided at the beginning of 2019 that you would start making those leaps towards what you want to achieve. To step out of your dreaming -planning phase. Now approaching

April 1, 2020

“Once established, the young girl's dependency is systematically supported as she proceeds through childhood. For being "nice" - nonchallenging, nonconfronting, noncomplaining - she's rewarded with good grades, the approval of

March 26, 2020

Education is an industry that for centuries, women were barred from entering. Throughout history, women’s education has been of a significant lack of quality to that for men. It wasn’t until the

March 17, 2020

As March 8th came and past once more, International Women’s Day endeavours to celebrate, uplift and empower women and girls all over the world. From social awareness campaigns, political protests, art exhibitions, film festivals and feel-good-totally-shareable-Insta-stories, International

March 14, 2020

Every year on March 8th, International Women’s Day celebrates the achievements, endeavours and abilities of women and girls all over the world. As well as that, it brings to attention the

March 8, 2020

As I’m sure we are all aware, feminism has evolved over time, from the first wave of western feminists fighting for the vote, to the #MeToo movement. And fighting alongside have

March 1, 2020

The phrase WLW (women who love women) is a very new, modern internet acronym that seeks to be inclusive of all sorts of women who, well, love women. It is

February 28, 2020

Femininity used to be something sought after - but nowadays it's as though it's a weakness?! But you don't have to compromise your femininity to get ahead! However well-meaning, as

February 18, 2020

When was a I child (and I will admit, as an adult as well), whenever I got hurt, whenever I fell off my bike or got a cut, whenever I felt sick, I would

February 16, 2020

We currently live in a time of uncertainty. Between shortages of resources, climate change, the re-emergence of right-wing populism and #MeToo, the world is often a difficult and complex place to navigate.

February 9, 2020

Despite the growth of equality that has come in recent years, there are still some professions undeniably dominated by men. I got in touch with a woman in the Royal

February 8, 2020

Hi darlings, the other week we were lucky enough to have a chat with health coach Steph Hendel  @stephhendel founder of BodyBuiltByLove. See what we talked about below and make

January 21, 2020

The world is full of famous women with all the right words for every situation, and poets have long had a way of making sense of the world for the rest

January 20, 2020

Our Top Books by kick-ass women to help you reconnect with yourself  Finding a sustainable, compassionate connection with yourself is hard. Let’s be honest, we are all our own worst

January 18, 2020

Be it the commercialised cards, the soppy films with oh-so-dramatic kiss scenes in the rain and the man-looks-longingly-at-woman-over-dinner advertisements. There is no denying that Valentines Day remains a completely heteronormative, cisgendered, capitalist holiday which idealises a very

January 17, 2020

2019 was a year filled with passionate, creative, hardworking and individual women (and girls) who brought about positive change in a variety of ways. These women teach us that the

January 14, 2020

You decided at the beginning of 2019 that you would start making those leaps towards what you want to achieve. To step out of your dreaming -planning phase. Now approaching

January 10, 2020

One of the things I love in any kind of fiction book is a strong female character, even better if she’s the protagonist. Stepping into the shoes of these kinds

January 5, 2020

The body positivity movement comes, quite literally, in all shapes, sizes, colours and genders. Rooted in fat acceptance, the social movement seeks to challenge the way in which unrealistic beauty standards in society

December 20, 2019

A couple of weeks ago we were fortunate enough to have a chat with Imogen of @imogenroseig and this is what we talked about! Selfish Darling: Hi Imogen, we’re so

December 8, 2019

Amongst the gingerbread lattes and last-minute shopping the ye olde Christmas phrase comes around again calling for ‘Peace on Earth and Goodwill to All Men’ (and women, obvs). Whilst peace

December 1, 2019

The word ‘selfish’ is one that often misunderstood in society. The dictionary definition describes ‘selfish’ as: a person, action, or motive that lacks ‘consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's

November 25, 2019

Self-Study: We live in a society that pits us all against each other. A society that tells us again and again that we are lacking in some way. We are

November 11, 2019

Our Three Young Female Entrepreneurs Whilst this article barely touches upon the huge number of young female entrepreneurs who are absolutely bossing it, it is a specially handpicked snapshot of

October 26, 2019

Do you own a Power Suit? If you do, you go girl! If not, have a read and lets see if we can convince you to invest in one. Dispelling

October 25, 2019

For thousands of years, women have gathered together in cultures around the world to sit in a circle, share stories and listen to each other. It’s hard to place which

October 24, 2019

Little Women The cult classic book Little Women by Louisa May Alcott is getting yet another all-star Hollywood reboot of the same name. I was reading an article on The

October 21, 2019

Female bodily hair is a widely opinionated subject, with these opinions evolving more as the natural form of a woman – hair and all – is becoming much more commonly

October 8, 2019

Families are complicated. And therefore so are family holidays. Chances are, if you’re in your twenties, the family vacation is the longest extended period of time you’ll spend with your

September 28, 2019

2019 has really been Lizzo’s year. After featuring on the soundtrack for the Netflix movie ‘Someone Great’ and then gifting the world with her now renowned performance at the BET

September 26, 2019

It’s been another crazy week on the internet. With British politics in literal disarray I was weirdly grateful to be gifted the wonderful distraction that was Natalie Beach’s article for

September 19, 2019

Comedy is no longer a boys club, but at a time when it seems as easy as ever for disgraced male comics to make their comebacks it’s time to put

September 14, 2019

Darling has it ever hit you that you have no discretion in your current role alongside the fact it feels so dull and un-inspiring? This happened to me and coincided with

September 8, 2019

Barbara Noraz,  26 years old – Founder of “Satin Studio” - Lyon (France) Can you introduce yourself and tell us more about your career? I am Barbara, founder of “Satin

September 4, 2019

Be The Change - Gina Martin Be The Change - Gina Martin You might recognise the name Gina Martin from the news in recent years. She was the driving force

August 15, 2019

So you’ve just lost your job and you’re crying on the bus home at 4pm on a Monday with no sense of direction and no idea what to do next.

August 13, 2019

Who is the Bitch? Why does she care less without being careless? The Bitch is a long-standing, like from the dawn of man, member of human existence. She was there

August 2, 2019

Idea First you need an idea. Maybe you already have one (or two) tucked away that you’ve not told anyone about yet. Actually spend some serious time thinking about these

July 25, 2019

Well what can i say if is not Beyonce was right? GIRLS RUN THE WORLD! And we are going to do anything to reach equality, learn to value ourselves and

January 22, 2019

We are officially obsessed with dieting. From the before-and-after pictures clogging up your Twitter feed, and the meal plans littering your Instagram, we are pretty sure we know how to

October 22, 2018

We should always be inspired by other women in all aspects of life. When in a slump about your career or what to do next in life then take a

August 29, 2018

On social media there are so many influencers to follow, especially wellbeing influencers who will give you motivation to get fit. It can be useful to follow these people as

August 23, 2018

At times it can be difficult to find motivation in all aspects of life. When you are struggling, it can be useful to remind yourself what others are capable of

August 15, 2018

Getting motivated to go to the Gym can be difficult in itself without having to worry about whether or not you’ve got the right gym wear for your workout. There’s nothing

August 8, 2018